Question of the Day (well, yesterday)
Question of the Day
Wednesday, Jan. 12
Q. Is it better to love and lose or never love at all?
A friend of mine asked me the same question. This guy she really cared about, that helped her so much, had moved away (on her birthday!!) and she never got to tell him how she felt. This, of course, got her thinking that it would have been better not to have loved at all. I told her to think of how much that love has changed her, how much good it brought into her life, and to be grateful that he came, not bitter that he left.
Wednesday, Jan. 12
Q. Is it better to love and lose or never love at all?
A friend of mine asked me the same question. This guy she really cared about, that helped her so much, had moved away (on her birthday!!) and she never got to tell him how she felt. This, of course, got her thinking that it would have been better not to have loved at all. I told her to think of how much that love has changed her, how much good it brought into her life, and to be grateful that he came, not bitter that he left.
posted by *meth_angel* at 11:44:00 PM
1 Comments:
this is true...
tis better, to have loved and lost.
then never to have loved at all.
love is THE ultimate alchemyst
nothing changes us more than love, or the lack thereof.
i thought that relationships change us more, but it is love, within or without. perhaps even down to our DNA. no matter how much it hurts, or how good it appears to feel, just stay open to love and loving, or shrivel up for fear of being hurt again. swallow that jagged little pill!!! over and over again. we'll never get it "right" anyway, so... chance em!
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